Syrian Wedding
While most Syrian weddings follow the pattern of Muslim weddings
everywhere, there are special features that have developed mirroring the
culture of the country.The caremonies begin with the engagement or khetbeh-this
is essentially the ring caremony. The bride to be wears the ring on her
right hand and transfers it to her left after the marriage. The caremony is
usually conducted by a religious person from the mosque, but his presence is
not mandatory.
Like most Muslim weddings, this caremony too is essentially an exchange of a
promise to wed. A contract is signed and registered in the court. This
contract is called Ktab. Also mentioned in the contract is the maher or
bride price which is payable by the groom. The maher is in two parts-the
first is paid before the wedding and is called the mukaddam. The second part
or muahkhar is paid only when required. The woman has the right to enforce
it at any time in the event of her death, her children can claim it from
their father.
At the wedding, the groom's party is marked by the presence of a senior
family member or religious leader who talks about the importance of
marriage, its meaning and the value of a long relationship
An interesting and amusing by-play prior to the wedding happens when the
groom's friends take him to get dressed. As they help him, his bachelor
friends prick him on the knee with a needle or pin. The belief is that if
they do, they too will get married soon! On the girl's side, her unmarried
friends pinch her knee or tread on her toes in the belief that they will
find their life partners soon! While the groom gets dressed, his friends
sing traditional songs called arada. Sometimes, if the groom can afford it,
he engages skilled people to stage a mock fight with swords and shields. The
Participants in this mock fight are traditionally attired in breeches,
traditional head gear and make a colourful picture. The event is one of
enjoyment and revelry.
Then the bride and groom pass between to rows of men holding crossed swords
over the bridal pair. It is believed that this practice has come down from
ancient times, A demonstration of valour by the groom proved that the bride
would be safe from harm in her new home! Another interesting custom, which
is no longer as popular as it used to be, happens when the bride enters her
new home. She is given a handful of dough, which she sticks on the door
before entering. If it sticks it is believed that the couple will have a
long and happy relationship. The wheat dough is a symbol of plenty.
Naturally the dough is made of the right consistency to ensure that it does
stick!
A modern day departure from the practice of breaking a bottle of perfume on
the doorstep of the bride's new home. This is believed to epitomize the
fragrance of the relationship.
If marriages are a mirror of culture, this is undoubtedly an interesting
insight into Syrian culture.
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